Just because,therefore no title

Hey ya’ll how is everything going? Life? Love? Work? Finances? Lol yes I’ll remember that ‘cos im broke L

Anyways so today I knew i wanted to blog about something, I just wasn’t sure what. Then I had [I’m having (cos it’s still going on)] a conversation with a “friend” and I share some of my future dreams with him, yes it’s a him, and his reply is “GOOD FOR YOU”. Are you for real? I know you can like appear non-chalant about stuff, well may be because you just don’t care much about me and my issues. So anyway so in the beginning this friend and I were pretty chummy, we used to chat every day, every morning I would wake up to a bbm from him and then all of a sudden life happened, it’s a miracle if we chat in one week, if I cashed a cheque for every time my messages didn’t get a reply...let’s just say I won’t be crying broke.

So that said, today I’m blogging about friendship if you didn’t guess that already. First I’ll tell you the kind of friend I am. I love my friends they are like family to me. I don’t mess with my friends. I make sure I’m there when they need to talk or they just need someone to listen or they just need someone to be there. I believe in my them, I support their dreams and I’m always there to lend a hand and share their excitement, celebrate milestones and achievements, help them up when they fall, encourage when they struggle, be a wind underneath their wings so they may fly. I’ll pray with you and pray for you, God is the ultimate friend. But I’m far from a perfect friend. I am impatient and can be very moody; I have a knack of snapping in and out of moods. I can also be bad at not keeping in touch sometimes (esp if you don’t have a bb J) but I am a good friend that will tell you like it is, keeping in mind your feelings, I’m not a selfish friend.

Now I have all sorts of friends from the highly mature to very childish, from the stubborn to the slightly passive, the loud and the quiet ones. Some are highly ambitious, others are content with allowing a man take care of them. Some are home bodies, others are party goers. Some have connections with the high and mighty, others don’t even care to know “who they know”.

I’m talking about my real friends, those ones that have my back regardless, the ones that have been there for me with every smiley face, every tear over lord knows what, every first date to the heartbreak and disappointment, every drunken night and hungover morning, every scary moment and damn right exciting times. These are the people that just know when to call, what to say, what to do and how to show love that wouldn’t judge me, but be real with me and tell me the hardest truth.

Don’t forget to tell your friends how much you love them and always try to keep in touch. Be a true friend to someone and your life would be soooo much better for it, learn to pick your friends wisely so you don’t regret opening your heart.

Till next time Peace, Love, Harmony and Respect to you and your’s

xx