Thankful for yesterday...Hopeful for tomorrow

I remember January 1,2010 like it was yesterday. Walking home from church with my cousins a little after midnight,talking on the phone to my (then) boyfriend, apologizing for the wrongs of the past year and making promises for the new year. Fast forward to 3pm Jan1,I took the decision to walk away from the turbulent relationship. I promised myself happiness in 2010 and wasn't going to remain in a relationship that wouldn't work,if on the first day of the new year only a few hours after making promises can't be perfect then what does the rest of the year hold for us?

Turned out to be one of the best decisions of my life. I'm thankful for that day,I'm thankful for where I am today,I'm thankful for I have learnt never to settle for less than I deserve.

I haven't found what I'm looking for but I know God will bring him to me,the one He has made specially for me so I don't worry about that anymore.

2010 was all sorts of things for me,so I look forward to a better 2011. A career change is in the works,i'm actually excited about this. May God crown my efforts with success. AMEN!

It is well with us all. Here's to a fabulous year with family,friends who have become family and people with meet and communicate with from day to day *cheers*

Egbami oh,won fe je igbe mi ohh

Na wa ohh,see me see sumthin for this lagos ohhh. As i was jejely sleeping my sunday afternoon sleep (yea i no go church) my sis (from another mother) was teling me abt her ex calling her at 6am to ask her to come n cook for him. I mean really sho yo ni?(was he drunk?),which devil will possess u to call ur ex who u havnt spoken too in ages,who has expressly told u to stop calling her n tell her to come n cook for u,dt ur girlfriend isnt around.O ma ba idi eh ohh(thundar knack ur yansh) i mean seriously these male specie r sumthin else *smh*.
Sha ohh as i still dey lament abt my sis's own ohh,na so my own too come (no not my ex).His friend or is it ex-friend sha sha im still cool wit d friend,neway he's like "hey sista wassup?avnt heard from u in a while",im like ahh i've just been there oh bla blah bla. He's like "ehen i saw our mutual friend a week ago,he came to meet me at an event (Note dt dis monkey hasnt called dis guy since he got married n came bck from his honeymoon)... n he was talkin abt how u (me) n I (friend) hav been going up n down 2geda in lagos n how ive(friend) been sending u love msgs dat u (me) forwarded to...(ur lets call her kim)... kim n kim inturn showed it to (lets call him peter)... peter who den told him.
Egbami!! See d long line of ppl wey d jist don touch,im sorry ohh mr.ex its not ur bizness who im painting d town red wit,whether its ur friend or not,d same friend u ex-ed outta ur life.I dont think u should be bothered abt any other woman other than ur new bride!
[jist continued] that so he(friend) had my number all this while n didnt give him wen he asked for it.Meanwhile friend even deleted my number wen dey were still chummy cuz he accused me of getting wit him(friend) to get back at him.[/jist ended]
I'm sorry ohh but how is wat i do n wat i dont do dis guys bizness?See as he wan take spoil my market! shebi u no wan do,allow make another person do naaa.This is d same bomboclat(sp) dat has been sending me forwarded emails dis week,come dis nigga no make i send shopona to u ohhh.I dont bother abt u n i suggest u do d same abi kini gan? sho fe je igbe mi ni?(u wanna eat my shit?)

Sha i'll be back to update
Title Translates "Help me,they wanna eat my shit"

It's time and i know i'm ready

So the people that know me personally or that have been reading my blog know that sometime last yr God helped me get rid of my "goodfornothing ex". I say god bcos He does answer prayers oh,i prayed about dis fellow n God revealed himself to me. Anyway im lying in my bed scooping ice cream(dt tastes more like ass-cream,eewww) and im reading various relationship stuffs n doing amebo wit my girls n it dawned on me dat i'm ready,it's time. I'm in the right place to love again,im ready to commit to another man,im ready to share my most intimate parts with a special someone,im ready to be loved and cared for like i know i deserve.
After d breakup,i went thru all d phases dat come widdit; Hurt,Anger,not sending,then back to being hurt,then being hurt for a while (esp wen he had moved on). I was hurt that it was sooo easy for him to move on quickly to the next phase of his relationship wit his nu chick wen i was still hurting. Wanna know wat i did d weekend we broke up?? i partied!!! My girls n i hit d town n we partied i called it my Liberation weekend,it was fun trust me,a good way to hide d hurting but still not enough to take d pain away.
I was living my life 1 day at a time,trying not to think abt it,trying not to think abt how my life woulda been if we were still together,trying not to think abt him wen i saw a flipping laptop power pack! then i realized its not possible to actually forget abt him,but it was possible to get over the hurt n move on from it n allow myself feel again.
I met random guys during my healing phase,but there was always an issue,but it wasnt entirely me cuz there will always be issues btw d male n female genders. So i decided to focus on other things,thats wen PR came along,it allowed me to focus on other things.
I still think abt him occassionaly,maybe refer to him from time to time but he doesnt rule my mind nemore,doesnt rule my thoughts or even my choice of men.
I am free!!! Yes thats right this naija sista is free from hurt n pain n is soooo ready to move on,so oya begin to submit ur brothers,cuzins,bestfriends etc resumes for screening. It's gonna be on a first come,first serve basis ohhh,hhehehehehehehe!

Ok someone said i type too long,i'll stop now.
Till d next time Peace,Love,Harmony n Respect to u n urs