Ladies (and Gentlemen)

So over the past week I've come here with the intention to blog, even started typing then changed my mind over and over again. I decided it (read as someone) wasn't worth an entry in my blog. So i shall move right along.

The other day a friend sent me this funny voice note "don't be a weste" (waste) cracked me up but made a lot of sense. So i shall get up and pursue that dream of mine,fully register for the professional class,officially learn how to drive and get that licence, get references and apply for MSc. 2011 I Boluwatife shall not be a "weste" . I shall not let inconsequential things distract me from my goal,laziness shall not thrive over me either. God will provide,He'll lead,guide and protect me.He will crown all my efforts in Jesus name!

So now that i have said that,let me just say this:
Ladies(men can apply this too),if he misses you,he will call. If he cares,he will ask. Do not make excuses for him.
Don't wonder why hes twitting,has u on his bb and still doesn't holla.
If he wants you,he'll come after you.Don't go chasing him.
It's simple He is just not that into you.
Remember that you,my dear are worth more than a man that can't see you or isn't paying attention.
Invest that time you spend analyzing and making excuses for him in yourself and everything will turn out right. I promise.
[Random rant]

On that note I sign out.
Till next time Peace,Love,Harmony and Respect to you and your's
xoxo
Ms.Bollz

Thankful for yesterday...Hopeful for tomorrow

I remember January 1,2010 like it was yesterday. Walking home from church with my cousins a little after midnight,talking on the phone to my (then) boyfriend, apologizing for the wrongs of the past year and making promises for the new year. Fast forward to 3pm Jan1,I took the decision to walk away from the turbulent relationship. I promised myself happiness in 2010 and wasn't going to remain in a relationship that wouldn't work,if on the first day of the new year only a few hours after making promises can't be perfect then what does the rest of the year hold for us?

Turned out to be one of the best decisions of my life. I'm thankful for that day,I'm thankful for where I am today,I'm thankful for I have learnt never to settle for less than I deserve.

I haven't found what I'm looking for but I know God will bring him to me,the one He has made specially for me so I don't worry about that anymore.

2010 was all sorts of things for me,so I look forward to a better 2011. A career change is in the works,i'm actually excited about this. May God crown my efforts with success. AMEN!

It is well with us all. Here's to a fabulous year with family,friends who have become family and people with meet and communicate with from day to day *cheers*

Randomville

He sent me a BBM tonight,read my reply and didn't reply *sigh* I shouldn't expect anything, that I know but a part of me silently does.

So today i bummed! I promised to get up and do something,but I totally bummed.Spent the whole day with my nephew,infact woke up to find him in my bed (lovely way to wake up). He is soo precious,love him to pieces.

Tomorrow will be a better day,that I know.

Till next time Peace,Love,Harmony and Respect to you and yours
xoxo
Ms.Bollz